Luige A. del Puerto
Inquirer
SOME 16 percent of women police officers have been physically abused by their partners at one time or another during the last 10 years, according to a study by the Philippine National Police’s Family, Juvenile, and Gender Sensitivity Division (FJGSD).
When asked, “Have you experienced being physically battered by your husband or partner?” some 16 percent of 2,637 women said “yes,” while 84 percent said “no.”
The survey also showed that 20 female officers put up with physical abuse for 10 years; 34 women put up with it for five years; 36, for two years, and 55, for a year. But the actual figures of physically abused women officers could be higher, the survey said.
“These are women police officers expected to uphold the law. It’s ironic, but I think this reflects our society, our culture,” FJGSD head Supt. Ildebrandi Usana told the Inquirer Friday.
Violence against women “crosses boundaries,” Usana said, and women who are law enforcers or who carry guns were not necessarily immune to physical abuse.
The survey was conducted in September 2005 with 3,500 respondents with 15 percent from the national headquarters and the rest from regional police offices and national support units. Questionnaires had been sent to female officers, most of whom were assigned to the women’s and children’s concern desks (WCCDs).
The results were presented on Friday during the start of the “16-Day Campaign to Eliminate VAW (Violence Against Women)” in Camp Crame.
Some 7.7 percent of the 115,000-strong Philippine National Police are women. But none of them occupy senior posts in the force and many are confined to desk jobs and medical work.
When the female officers were asked if they knew of any male officer committing domestic violence against his wife or female partner, 35 percent of respondents said “yes.”
But just like the other battered women, the female officers refused to come out in the open.
According to the survey, battered women did not report their abusive partners because they were afraid of being humiliated, they believed their partners would no longer hurt them, and they wanted to avoid problems in the family if a case were filed in court.
Women were abused for a variety of reasons, with the survey naming jealousy, arguments over the husbands’ vices, and infidelity.
Various studies report on a cycle of violence: After the battery, the male partner apologizes, pursues the female partner, and everything is OK until the next battery and the cycle continues.
Civil Service Commission Chair Karina David, a women’s rights advocate, told the crowd of mostly women that the problem of VAW was “cultural.”
At a very young age, boys and girls are conditioned to think that they are not equal and this is the root of the problem, according to David. Women are brought up to believe they are subordinate to their husbands, and that husbands have the right to hurt their wives.
Even seating arrangements at a rectangular dinner table indicate inequality as men are seated at the head of the table, the wife and children to his left or right. David suggested that families use a round table instead.
“Many kinds of abuses stem from the belief that someone is lower in status than you,” David said in Filipino.
She challenged the men to “first understand why there is inequality.” Once the problem was understood, the manifestations, such as remarks or jokes which degrade women, could be identified.
“When you hear a joke [which is derogatory to women], challenge it,” David said, adding that men should be encouraged to discuss the issue.
“Try to get other people to join you in doing something about it,” she said. “The bottom line is no one — whether man, woman, child or elderly — has the right to hurt anyone.”
David also urged officers, especially those handling cases involving women and children, to try to put themselves in the shoes of the victims and not to blame them if they withdraw charges.
A woman could drop a case against an abusive partner for many reasons, David said, chief of which was fear — of reprisal, of not being able to support the children, of being cut off from the family.
Others who spoke at the kickoff rights were: Dr. Victorino Lantion of Men’s Responsibility in Gender and Development, based in Davao City, and Roderic Rama Poca of Men’s Movement Opposed to Violence Against Women and Children, based in Cebu City.
The 16-day campaign to eliminate VAW is conducted by the National Commission on the Role of Filipino Women (NCRFW). This year’s theme is “Men Speak Out,” with organizers encouraging men to take a more active role in the campaign against VAW.